Japanese weddings are celebrated as an integration of modern and traditional values. These weddings traditionally take place in the 'shinto' style at a shrine. The Shinto priests conduct these ceremonies. The guest lists in Japanese weddings usually include only family and close friends. They are close-knit events, to say the least!
During the ceremony, the groom reads his vows of commitment. The couple is purified by drinking a drink called ‘sake’, a Japanese rice wine. The couples, who are dressed in the traditional ‘kimono’, give offering to ‘kami’, the Shinto gods, at the end of the ceremony. The bride wears a kimono called the shiromuku (white kimono robe), and the groom wears montsuki (black formal kimono), haori (kimono jacket), and hakama (kimono pants). The couple is required to change costumes a few times during the ceremony.
It is interesting to note that Japanese weddings do not see the presence of a bridesmaid, or a best man.
It is interesting to note that Japanese weddings do not see the presence of a bridesmaid, or a best man.
At the end of the ceremony, at the reception, the newlyweds are usually seated on a stage. They enjoy the speeches and performances of their guests. After the performances, once the wedding cake is cut, it is tradition that the bride and groom walk around the room lighting candles and greeting their guests.
The guests are gifted wedding souvenirs. These souvenirs include tableware, sweets, interior decorations etc. In more recent times, guests are given a catalog from which they can choose their gifts.
Japanese people are known for their traditional values, and to know about a Japanese wedding, is the best way to know about Japanese culture.
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